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“In a startup, you’re going to have moments when 2, sometimes 4 tires are off the road. It happens to everyone, expect it.” Great advice from a friend and now advisor to my latest startup. The way he said it, so matter of fact, really felt like he was giving us permission over the next few years to have crazy, shit hits the fan moments. It felt good, but wow it’s hard to live by sometimes. When the tires are off the road, it’s hard to not think the situation you are in is particularly bad, one that no one has ever dealt with before, and one that can’t be overcome. Dramatic? yes. But it’s hard to get out of this train of thought sometimes.
This week we had a major hiccup on the development side. Without rambling on or getting into specifics, I’ll just say this: shit hit the fan. It sucked, it felt terrible. It was definitely a 2 tires (although at the time it felt like 4) off the road situation. It hit like a ton of bricks, and made me feel sick to my stomach. All of the usual thoughts and fears coming rushing back, “what do I do next,” “What am I doing with my life.” “Is this another failure,” etc. It’s actually amazing how quickly your balloon can be deflated. There’s a sense of panic, a sense of desperation, a lot of frustration, a lot of fear. It could consume you. But then I thought back to the comment about tires coming off the road. It happens. It happens to everyone, in startups, in life. Whew, deep breath, “sit, stay…” I stepped away and went for a walk, it was time for perspective.
First a reminder: There’s not a problem that can’t be dealt with. And let’s be honest, this wasn’t really that big of a deal. It can definitely be fixed, and fixed quickly. Then I had to think, “this is it, this is one of those great entrepreneurial moments where your skills are tested, you gain experience and confidence, and you find solutions.” Now here we are a few days later, and things have already been cleaned up a bit. Tires back on the road? Not yet, but close.
So our advisor was right very quickly. We had this moment about 6 days after he said this, and something tells me we’ll have plenty more moments like this. I’d even say we’re lucky if we look back and wish we had problems like this a year from now. The problems should be much larger then. That’s a good thing. Everyone has problems that sometimes seem insurmountable. The goal isn’t to try and avoid them. Instead the goal is to get more comfortable with each “uh oh” moment, to acknowledge your fears but not get overwhelmed by them, seek solutions, solve problems, gain confidence and experience, and move on.
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